Back in 2009, after a bad loss in Maine for same sex marriage which folks expected to win, I wrote about what I call “The Elijah Moment.” As I reprint below, the “Elijah Moment” is a reference to the story of Elijah where, after he performs the miracle on Mt Carmel and destroys the priests of Ba’al and Ashtoret, Jezebel issues a royal decree that totally undoes everything he did and, as the cherry on top, puts a bounty on Elijah’s head. As I describe below, Elijah does not take this well.
For everyone who cares deeply about a cause and fights for it as hard as they can, there generally comes an Elijah moment. That moment when you did all you could, fought as hard and as smart as you could — and still lost. Because that happens. Sometimes you can play your best game and still lose.
And it is soul crushing.
Not surprisingly, about 49% of the country are feeling that way (while 51% are rejoicing). So I reprint the relevant part here. There is no simple answer. The Elijah Moment is an awful thing to experience. I’ve felt it more than once. But you can survive. You can come back. Or, as Elijah did, you can give in to the despair. But even in Elijah’s case, he designated a next generation (Elisha) to replace him. The fight goes on.